Guide: Find Dating or Sex Partner

Common questions about male-female relations, flirting and dating asked by men and boys:

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I don't understand women at all, what women want, can you enlight this to me ?

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Before we start, just to be clear with few facts:

- I am talking only about getting sex without money, so everything you read here is for those who want to learn how to catch girls every day in real life and online. If you ask me, a real man will never pay for love nor intimacy. Many of my friends don't agree with this, but after a few hundred of girls and women in my life I am pretty sure about this statement.

- A lot of people asked me to focus on finding girls/women on the Internet, so I decide to have this in mind while writing this men guide. If you ask me, the principle is the same in the real world or online, for charming opposite sex, but if you feel more secure when hooking online, than OK, it is your choice.

- Woman is woman, no matter is she younger or older, keep that in mind, the game is always played on the same way!

- If someone find that my guide is too macho, keep in mind, that I didn't invent anything, I am just describing how stuffs works, and they work on that way from the beginning to the end of time and world, and remember, as Shakespeare says in Henry IV: "Don't shoot the messenger". And of course, I am just a messenger...

- No talks here about serious relationships, wedding and other types of LTRs, maybe once I write something about that topics too, but honestly, I am not sure did I know anything about been serious in relationships or been in marriage. Like already mentioned, people ask me how to get sex not how to get married, so I will stick to find female sex partners, not soul-mates.

- Last but not least: This is dedicated to my dear friends: J, M, another M and B. I love you all, and thanks for all great moments in past and for all future great moments, we will not retire soon :)

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Understanding Women, or What Women Want ?

Stop bothering yourself with this question, for your good. Someone very smart (poetry or philosophizer, I can't remember) said: "You can know women or can have them" , period. Just stick to option two - to have them. Don't try to understand, because as much you try, things will become more complicated. Personally, I think that mostly of women (especially when they are younger) really don't knows what they want in their life, from you, from self, so why would we bother with that at all? Ask yourself, how many times you felt in love attracted by gorgeus girl and tried to do everything for her in hope that she will feel and act on same way, and did she felt like you? In most cases answer is: No, so lets focus on our wishes and feelings.

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Finding woman or girl for Casual Dating

Whenever you met new women you want to have think about this: women looking for men on same way like you are seeking them, what means: every time and anywhere. Of course there are some places that are more appropriate for flirting and hooking than another. For example it is easier to start conversation on the beach when you (and she) are on vacation and have whole day free, than in metro at 8:45 AM when you both going to job. You will easier hookup girl online, than in supermarket, but it is not impossible to act also in situations where you are very tight with time. Be creative, and act adopted to situation,start from easier places and when you get some confidential you will easy recognize when and what to say or do. No matter do you like her and want to date, or you want just one night adventure, always be gentile, relaxed and try to act juts like nothing happens, no matter if you are scarred and your hart beat, just pretend you are relaxed.

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How and Where to Find Girls for One Night Stands

That is what you are most interested in? I understand that, and hear you: what are places to find girls for fun?Don't think about them as girls for one night stand, rather think that any girl, if you are skilled enough, can be your one-nigh adventure. Women are in this field very same as you: they want all kind of relationships including hookups and sex only, but they are more careful when it comes to action. First rule is to see that you are trust-able person. That means that you are not some offender or abuser, that you may go out of here life easy if she don't like you or stay in her life if she likes you. In short: she must be not scared from you and she must have sense of slight control over you, so do everything you can to assure that she see you on that way.

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What women generally think about one night stands

If you read carefully, than it is clear that girls like no-obligated adventures, one night stands, flirting and everything as we do, just are more frighten and more careful. Your role is to look like someone who will not make troubles, will not fail in love if they are in marriage and make problems, you just need to look like "Ok, we can have sex tonight, but if you don't want, that is OK too".

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Where to catch Girls Online and Get Sex ?

For girls, like it should be to you too, online partner finding, is nothing special, just one more way to get dating or sex partners for 1 night stands or LTR. About how to identify and avoid girls/women who want long term relation ship I will say few words later. Always keep in mind that women love and enjoy same things like we: dating, sex, commitment, casual sex, no matter we are talking in the same sentence about different stuff, that all that we and they need and want. In some moment of life, both women and men need some casual and wild sex, rich sex life, changing a lot of partners etc. On the other side, again both male and female in some other moment need to settle down, to find the right person, to marriage and get kids. And keep in fact that this world has about 7 billion people, half are men, other half is women, what mean there is a girl / women for everybody on this world, and it is not hard to find your fuck buddy, one night stand, or soulmate, it is all up to you!

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Finding Girl for permanent intimacy, but without any obligations

The best way is to use online dating sites or trusted hook up site (aka get sex site or to be more clear sex dating site) . Avoid free sites due to simply reason: they are full of fake profiles so you will waste a lot of time, focus on sites which are paid since some of them can guarantee that person who you are looking at the screen is a real person behind a computer screen. I will not tell you this time which sites are best, you need to discover yourself, but remember, free sites are good but so fake profiles, so you can talk few days with someone and then get a confession that on the other side of like is a guy or something like that.

Update: So many questions like "Please tell me which is your favorite site?" and so on, so I wrote a post and I am giving you my favorite get sex site. On the other side, in real-world focus on all places and situations where things are relaxed like clubs, beaches and all other please where people come to have a great time.

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What to do in the morning (after first one night stand)

It depends do you liked last night or not, because you should go in two opposite directions depending on this answer. If you want to keep here than you will do something about her. If you don't, then just pretend like nothings happened and if she insist to see you again give her your number but with last digit changed. This is useful, if in future you see her somewhere else, you will explain that you was in hurry so missed number (just for one nigit)

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What about gifts

If you had some great time last night, it wouldn't be bad to send something and wait for here response. Chocolate or flower gift would be nice, nothing expensive, and don't forget small card with only few words. Never take her a gift use local flower shop to ask them to deliver. Same for chocolate. Message like "Thanks for great time." will be just enough. She would be in toughts like "What he mean by this?" or "Did he likes me?" or "Will he call again?" and similar. If you decide to call wait for at least one week. Never give you excuses why you called after 7 days, just say "I couldn't call you earlier". In women imagination that will be "drop" of mystery. At same time, girls are mad about guys that do such things, they will never confess you but believe me, it is proven recipe.

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Conclusion: What we learned about attracting women

Summary: Be relaxed and show that you don't care.

Emergency call: I felt in Love!!! - Can't help there... :)

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Resources (science about male/female sex and other relationships)

• Male power posing
• Why be alpha male (research with monkeys, since they are mammals too)
• Social Basis of Human Behavior: Sex
• Funny funny educational sex videos series

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