Catch girls and land fast One Night Stands Guide How To Get A GirlFriend (s)?
Finding a girlfriend in real life or online is not very hard if you follow some simple instructions.
1Do You need a Girl?
Before you start, ask yourself: do I need a girlfriend? If the answer is: Yes, then continue reading our perfect guide for getting a girlfriend.
2Work on Yourself
Girls are all around us: in real world and online. Younger and older boys and men usually have problems with confidence, they think that they are not good enough to have a girlfriend. That may be the truth and maybe NOT. In both cases what you can do is to work on yourself. What does that mean? It means that you really don't have a "value" that attract girls (and women) or that you have but it is not enough. In both cases, you should work on your self in various ways. Read books, you should know something about classic literature but also something about modern books, especially those popular that women read those days, for example, "50 shades of grey" and similar. Why? Because those are great communication openers. Girls like to talk with boys about stuff that they know something about and to enjoy such conversation You should know something about the topic. It is ok that you are interested in mechanics or PCs, but a not too much girl like that topic, they usually like "girls topics", so you must be interesting to them. It is not recommended to bother girls and women with topics that they don't know anything about. You will not look smarter in their eyes, actually, you will look like a boring guy who thinks that he is very smart. The solution is simple, read books, know yourself with music and movies that most girls like those days, those would be great openers and great topics to talk about in various situations.
3Physical Attraction Improving
Another important thing is how you look in their eyes, on first place we are talking about physical attraction, the beauty of the face and body, and the way you are dressed, that makes the first impression, and the first impression is very important. You don't need to look like Brad Pitt or Cristiano Ronaldo, but there is always something you can do. So keep your body in shape, try to eat healthily, buy a membership in a local gym, look for fashion designers and their advice for men and boys. You don't need to spend a fortune on clothes, it is only important that you are following trends, and that you are always clean and fresh. In those days beards are very popular, so you can consider that too. Or some other small details that can change the whole picture of you. Well, that is whole fashion is all about: small details that make us look better in other peoples eyes.
4Improve Your Behavior
To get a girl, or even have more girlfriends, next step, and most important is your behavior. Behaviour is your altitude. Women like confident guys they don't care too much what other people think or say. The way you approach girls tells a lot about you, and women know to perfectly to read boys and men. The first thing to know is: never askfor love, sex, date or anything else. Always try to look interested but now too much interested. That gives the impression that you can choose, that you have offers from other girls and they love that. The old saying says that "girls like what other girls like", so if they get the impression that you are desirable by other girls chances are huge that you will be desirable to them too. When you approach to try not to talk too much, keep the smile, and if you are rejected again keep the smile on your face. You can find on internet various conversation openers and you will find some link to useful sources at the bottom of this page. But best opener is to "scan" a girl, make some conclusions about her, about her lifestyle, wishes, dreams and to play on that card. For example, if you see a young girl that is dressed to look as businesswomen, that have an expensive bag and so on, you can conclude that probably "her world" and dreams are in that direction. In that example, the conversation should start with an appropriate topic, in this case, something for example like "Are you a lawyer, you look me like a lawyer?". No matter if she is not a lawyer, she will (probably) be flattered that you think she is, and she will tell you what she is doing for a living, or what she is trying to become and accomplish. That is an example of the excellent opener. On the other side, here is another example for the younger population; you see a girl in college, which looks opposite that businesswoman, she looks casual. Good opener would be "You are listening R&B, right?". In case she is listening and chances are good that she listen she will ask how did you know, in case she doesn't listen that kind of music, she will be flattered that you tried and will tell you what kind of music she really listens. It is simple. Really very simple, you just need to be creative in giving to a girl a nice "catch" that she can't refuse. Girls and women are much more verbal human beings than boys and men, so just show them that you want to talk with them about topics that they know something about and that they care about, something that is important to them. When a girl starts to answer your question, always try to look even more interested and drive the conversation with many other questions, and be a good listener. Simply: find what they like to talk about, what is important in their lives, ask them about that topic, look interested in knowing her thoughts and just listen. If you do this on the appropriate way you don 3/4 of "the job" or in simple words: she will probably be your girlfriend.
Many times asked: "how to get a girlfriend in 1 day "? Well following those simple instructions you may get the girl in one afternoon, but on the other side, sometimes you will need to be patient and you will need few weeks to seduce her or convince her to go on date with you. There are no general rules, but if you are practicing and learn, this time will be shorter and shorter. In some situations, you can convince a girl in 1 hour to be yours. Just practice and learn. Keep in mind again: girls are verbal and girls need good listeners who are interested to listen to things that are important to them
5 Places to Meet Girls
Places to meet girls are various: from online sites and apps to all other places in this world depending on your age. If you are going to school then the school is the best place. If you are working than office, pubs, clubs various events are great places to meet girls and women. If you are retired, the Internet could be the best choice. Girls and women are all around us, we just need to approach them in the appropriate way, since they desperately need someone to approach to them. Boys and men who are doing that on the better way have more girls, those who don't know and won't learn, they usually don't have girls at all. Again: it is simple: scan, ask and listen, and always look that you care very much to know her. Not mention sex, just look like you are interested to know her deep inside, women just love such kind of guys.
6Ways and Sites to meet Girls Online
Meeting girls and women online is in the past 10 or more years moved to the Internet. About half of couples in the last decade met on some "online way". It is the same in real life, maybe even better: you have more time to analyze women and ask the right question. Great places to start are Pof.com (largest, free dating site in the world) or if you are for something more casual than maybe some hookup sites will be a better solution.
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Resources
- How to get Girl (VIDEO)
- General conversation openers
- 33 ways to start conversation with anyone